Be with Her Because..

Be with her because you actually want to be with her, because you actually see a potential future with her, not because you are used to being with her.  Not because you're scared of the thought that being without them will ruin you.


The point of being in a relationship is to enjoy each other's company, is to be there to support each other when they need it most.  No one person, defines who you are.  They only compliment you.


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The conversation got serious when I was asked about my dowry; how much would my parents agree on, and when can he see my parents.

Before that, would I want my future husband to bear my university costs?

All of that questions, half of it was answered in the same phone conversation.
Another half of it would depend on my parents agreement.

Being the eldest, I feel awkward..... hmm.

Ya Allah, kalau dia jodoh yang terbaik untukku..
Kau bukalah pintu hatiku untuk terima segala keburukan dan kelemahannya sepertimana dia sedia menerima aku seadanya.
Kau permudahkanlah urusan kami andai Engkau redhai masjid yang bakal dibina ya Allah..
Amiin!

Yours sincerely,
'Izzah Syauqina