Doing Good is Very Expensive

Marriage is a Sunnah of our Prophet SAW.
A lot of youngsters today is complaining of fitnah and the fear of falling into zina (fornication).  A lot of them are university students whom can't afford getting married on their own.

The Prophet SAW instructed youths to fast if they are unable to afford marriage.  However, it is the duty of the parents to help their son or daughter to get married if they are unable to do that on their own.

Scholars say that it is mandatory to get married for those who fear falling into forbidden relationships.

I can't understand why most parents risk their children falling in such forbidden relationships and insist that they marry only when they finish school, or when employed.  Falling into zina is very easy, while doing good is very expensive today; financially, and emotionally.

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This is very true.

It's understandable that you want to establish yourself before you get married.  For men especially, you want to get married when you know you can provide for your wife and family.

Some may disagree, but I believe.. if two people fall in love, the right thing to do is to get married or have a nikah.  The rest will come after, insya Allah.

At this point, I am very disappointed with some people..  let's just not say who.  Would they rather, their children fall into zina?  Why is there such hostility towards this topic when their children confidently says they are ready for it, and has acknowledged the responsibilities that comes with it..?  I mean, no matter what their children are doing right now, no matter at what stage they are in life, why is there no support for a sunnah?

Members of the public, what are your views?
She's 21, and he's 23.  And they are ready to take the next step.

Allahu a'lam.

Yours sincerely,
'Izzah Syauqina